I was discussing these changes with my parents earlier today and how one matures when travelling. From my experience, I have formed the opinion that everyone should, in their twenties, spend a considerable amount of time abroad. Two or three weeks will allow you to see the tourists attractions, sure, but it won't introduce you to the country's different way of life. I would also suggest doing some travelling alone. It is amazing how tough we realize we are when we have no one to count on but ourselves. It also shows you that in the end, you are your own best friend. It might sound tacky, but it's true. Trusting yourself is a lot more useful than having to rely on someone else's judgement to get you by. Something I learned was to take risks and not be afraid to make a mistake (which I learned by making mistakes, and then realizing it wasn't such a big deal). For example, I dyed my hair purple today. That's right, the whole hair population on my head is now bright purple. I also entered a singing competition. My point is that after you dare to do something a bit crazy, the little risks won't seem that frightening anymore.
Another example is the trip I just booked to Munich in Germany for Christmas. I will be spending Christmas in a hostel, in a country I have never been to, with people I have never met. Why? Because I'll be alone for Christmas anyways, so I might as well go play tourist. And because I heard that they have wicked markets that time of year. But I didn't research the whole country before booking my flight. I just know which city I'm going to. Now, six months ago, that would have been quite anxiety inducing. But now, I figure that if I managed to do it in Dublin a few months ago, I can do it again. Plus, it should be easier this time since I don't have to work hard to find a job and an apartment quickly. I can just sit back and be a tourist (something I still haven't done in Ireland yet). Needless to say, I am very excited for my trip. Know what I'm even more excited for? My dad coming over to visit me in a month. It'll be six months that I haven't seen him. It's also his first time in Europe, so I bet it's exciting for him also.
And to end this post on a good note, I present to you the monster I found at the market today:
I apologize in advance if you have nightmares about it tonight.
The Heineken Cup was this week, Ireland vs Germany (the irony). Germany won 3-0, which is probably why I didn't hear anything about it the following day.